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                                             October  2, 2008
                                             October 10, 2008
                                             October 19, 2008
What do I have to say
about "masculinity",
if anything?                        SCREAMED_WITH_JOY


I like to think that I deal with most
things in a gender neutral way.                  MISOGYNY
For example: I'm interested in the
tropes in play in what I often call
"male adventure fiction", but I don't
see any particular reason that at their          It's possible to look at them
core they need be associated with the            as tales of competence and
masculine.                                       effectiveness and avoid any
                                                 male-specific terminology.
  I like to take the (once standard)
  line that masculinity is (almost)                   But doesn't that seem a
  entirely a social construct.                        bit self-consicously
                                                      forced?
  It's not an accident that I'm
  more interested in things                              The bare fact is
  masculine, but there's no reason                       that superhero
  to assume that males *have* to                         comics are almost
  be programmed this way.                                exclusively read
                                                         by males.
    But then of late, I've been
    inclined to take the line that it                       HULK_JONES
    is not necessarily a flaw of men if
    they're interested in things we
    associate with "masculinity"-- it
    could be a flaw with women that         If you embrace the
    they're not interested in them.         old feminist dream of
                                            a unisex world, you
                                            might try to achieve     Another
                                            a gender-independant     stab:
                                            society by blending
                                            the feminine and the      ROLES
                                            masculine, or by          TRANS
                                            eliminating the
                                            masculine... *or* by
                                            eliminating the
                                            feminine.

                                            In other words, I don't
                 (But then, I don't         take it as a given that
                 hang out with              masculinity == evil.
                 drunken football
                 fans very often.)          Historically, the
                                            masculine has been
                                            dominant, and so
                                            historically evil
                                            correlates well with
                                            the masculine,..  but    BAD_SMELL
                                            it is not only evil
                                            that does so.

                (October 5, 2008)

  It used to be I might wonder
  what I was doing wrong when,
  once again, I ended up in a
  situation where I was
  surrounded by a bunch of guys.

  In recent years, I've come to
  the conclusion that it's just
  not my fault if women aren't
  interested in cool stuff.

  This is not to say that there
  isn't still a lot of sexism out
  there in the world, but external               STANDING_WATER
  sexist pressures alone can't
  explain the gender disparities: a
  field like computer programming
  just doesn't have enough of sexism
  built into it to explain the              We tend to focus on
  absence of women on those grounds         the horror stories --
  alone.                                    male surfers gang-
                                            raping the lone
  The problem -- presuming it's             female surfer --
  a problem -- would seem to lie            but in the world's
  in "female culture": the                  I inhabit, it's
  internalized images of what               completely different.
  endeavors are of interest to
  women.                                       I don't think I know of
                                               a single male programmer
                                               (single or not) that
                    (Feb 19, 2017)             isn't overjoyed to get
       But then: I formed these                to talk to a woman who
       impressions, and wrote this             actually understands
       stuff down, way back before             programming.
       the invasion of the
       "brogrammers"-- we're now                  [ref]
       living through a "Revenge
       of the Frat-Boys" era where
       things are (reportedly)
       different.




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