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                                                             December 23, 2014
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Let's begin my "remembrances of things feminist" with one of the
more interesting feminist sub-cultures of the 70s, one that
seems nearly forgotten today: the "lesbian separatists", who
were apparently inspired by the black separatist movement.

This was a group of women who decided that they'd be better off
if they found ways of living without dealing with men at all.

There was one show in particular on the air at WBAI
where a group of lesbian separatists held court-- they
lamented the fact that so many of the phone-callers were
male, and announced that they simply were not going to
take any calls from anyone but women.  This provoked
even more outrage than you might expect-- remember the
widespread policy at WBAI of open-access to the
airwaves, their pride at doing no call screening
whatsoever, and here you had a group of people not only
with a screening policy, but a blatantly sexist one
(albeit "reverse" sexist).  They rather gleefully
hung-up on deep male voice after deep male voice, only
occasionally getting a call from a woman--

                                 Many of the women they did talk to (as
                                 I remember it) didn't really share
                                 their enthusiasm for this project.
                                 If this contentious environment was
                                 supposed to be "welcoming to women"
                                 I'm afraid it was flop.

At this late date I really only remember little bits and pieces
about what they had to say.  I remember one conversation where
one woman said something dismissive of women who wear skirts, and
another woman in the room chimed in "I'm wearing a skirt!".
She explained that this was a recommended treatment for yeast
infections.  The first woman sounded slightly embarassed, and
said in an attempt at covering herself "I don't ogle anybody."

  Consider:

  (1) skirts?  Why would you care about
  whether a woman was wearing a skirt or
  the then ubiquitous blue jeans?  And                                
  the woman who was wearing one felt the     This particular feminism       
  need to justify it, she had to make        seemed oddly restricted,       
  clear it wasn't a matter of personal       colorless, joyless... it       
  taste.                                     was stuck on making a show     
                                             of high-mindedness             
  (2) the speaker took pride in being                                       
  oblivious about appearences.  A                   I once remarked that    
  lesbian who liked *looking* at other              70s-style feminism had    
  women would be treating them as a mere            rigid ideas about gender    
  "sexual object".                                  roles-- this is the kind    
                                                    of thing I meant.       
       They were presenting a philosophy of                          
       a new way of living, but they didn't
       seem to be comfortable with being
       human beings.


On another occasion a lesbian folk-singer was being
interviewed, and she was asked the question "So, what do you
think of Dory Previn?"  The singer responded in a very stiff
and cold manner-- she seemed insulted at the comparison-- she
commented that Dory Previn was singing *about* her problems,
rather than *solving* her problems.

At the time, I thought that was pretty funny: meaning
that Dory Previn sometimes sings about relationships
with men?  Women were required to be pure lesbians,
and not bisexual traitors like Dory Previn?
                                                                
                    But it occurs to me that the meaning might       
                    be a little different.  One of Dory Previn's     
                    better known songs was "Angels and Devils        
                    The Following Day" (1971), which was             
                    essentially about how she liked a rough and      
                    crude guy (who "bruised my breast") more         
                    than an intellectual guy with some               
                    complicated guilt emotions.                      
                                                                     
                        The range of sexual reactions woman were    
                        allowed to have by the feminism of the 70s
                        was considerably more narrow than that.




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