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                                             April 24, 2014
                                             July   3, 2014
The Korean movie, from 2013--

  "How to Use Guys with Secret Tips"

--depicts a young woman who gets her
career moving again with a set of very
strange inspirational video tapes:        The self-help guru of the
"How to Use Guys with Secret Tips".       video series (typically
                                          sporting clashing electric
The *look* of these instructional         plaid suits) begins making
videos interjected into the flow          surreal appearences as her
of the movie is one of the more           spirit guide--
engaging thing about it --
at once dorky and psychedelic.            Ala "Play it Again Sam"?


   What I'm interested in though
   is the overall theme, the                        There's a touch of the
   Great Question that confronts                    "old curiosity shop" in
   all women: to use or not to use?                 the source of these
   (Or perhaps: to sell or not to                   videos: a moldy broken
   sell, and sell what, and for how                 down stand on the beach,
   much exactly?).                                  mysteriously open in the
                                                    dead of night in poor
                                                    weather...


The usual shoujo form involves relentlessly "innocent"
girls who miraculously achieve the same efect that
they would from "using men", but do so without effort
or intent (or desire?), remaining amazingly oblivious
to the effect they're actions have on other people...

They can't be accused of "using
men" because they're too dumb to                  "Manipulative" behavior
plan ahead that far.                              is exclusively the
                                                  province of the heroine's
      This celebration of dumb                    competitor, the evil,
      luck is unique to woman's                   false-faced "vixen".
      "romance" form.


So I'm interested in
stories with the central
theme is embracing the          Urban Legend Woman is a about a female
unashamed manipulation of       detective obsessed with Urban Legends and
men.                            intent on proving at least one of them real.
                                Here "Urban Legend" seems to mean something
It's also visible in the        like "Modern Myth".  This is an entry in the
series:                         obscure sub-genre of "supernatural
                                detective" (and they actually namedrop
  "Urban Legend Woman"          "Kolchak the Nightstalker"!)...
                                       
"Urban Legend Woman" is a babe-detective
series, a comedy-drama (with the             
emphasis on the former), the best of         
which, bar none is "Detective Wanko",        The premises of current
where Mikako Tabe plays a gothic lolita      Japanese television
police detective with a super human          shows make American
sense of smell--                             sitcoms of the 60s look
                                             positively sane.
    Notably, in "Detective Wanko" they
    handle the main character's flashy
    style in a more conventional shoujo
    fashion-- people comment on it as
    being very weird, but she somehow,
    unaccountably doesn't see what they're
    talking about and doesn't see why
    anyone would have a problem with it.

    In "Urban Legend Woman", the main character
    frankly admits-- in conversation with
    another woman-- that she wears short skirts
    and heels as a means of manipulating men--
    which we see happen frequently throughout
    the series: she walks up to a man, touches
    his arm and smiles, and he folds up
    immediately.




Few women can be unaware
of these issues-- they recur
constantly, however rarely
they're spoken of...


Something I've been thinking
about again of late:
The Case of Yoko Ono


   "She played it innocent, but she
   knew what she was doing."

     -- Julian Lennon
        (son of John and Cynthia) ~1998

   "I would go as far as to say that she would not
   have gotten as much flack as she did if she had
   been, for instance, a blond woman."

      -- Sean Lennon (son of John and Yoko)
         lead quote, "The Real Yoko Ono"



There are a few different stories
about how John & Yoko met...
they're sometimes presented as             E.g. on a current
conflicting though it's not clear          wikipedia page.
to me that they are, really--

   There's the story that John Lennon
   would tell on talk shows and such,
   about being dragged to Yoko's
   gallery show in advance of it's
   opening, and being impressed that         There's another story that
   she just seemed annoyed and wasn't        Paul McCartney tells about
   interested in giving this random          Yoko Ono hustling to get
   rich guy any special treatment.  In       musical scores together for
   Lennon's story, she showed no sign        an anthology she was
   of having any idea who he was, but        working on with John
   each of them were eventually              Cage. First she was in
   impressed with the other's attitude       touch with Paul McCartney,
   toward art: he liked the positivity       and he then put her in
   of her messages, she liked his            touch with John Lennon.
   respect for the imaginary.
                                                   Are these tales necessarily
                                                   in conflict?  When he
        What's at stake here though?               arrived in the gallery,
        What do we want to hear, really?           she may have been someone
                                                   he talked to on the phone
            It's very important for                briefly, and then forgot
            Yoko Ono to be acting in               about.
            ignorance, for the first
            meeting to be some sort
            of chance encounter.




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