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                                                   May 19, 2019            
                                                   May 24, 2019            
"Her Private Life" (2019, Korean)                                          
                                                                           
Okay, I have to admit it to myself: I                                      
really, really like this show.  If you                                     
step back and take an objective look at                                    
my behavior, there's no way around it:                                     
                                                                           
I broke my rule about watching only                                        
one episode per day, and powered                                           
through the first 10 or so in less                                         
than a week.                                                               
                                                                           
As the new episodes come out, I've been                                    
watching bits of the raws rather than                                      
just waiting a day for the subtitles.                                      
                                                         (May 23, 2019)    
And I've been watching the earlier                                         
episodes again with my partner:               And I woke up this morning   
re-watching the series even before            dreaming about a scenario using
it's over with, would seem to be an           the characters from "Her     
unambiguous sign.                             Private Life", where they're 
                                              using a two-person kayak to  
                  DANGERBABY                  travel downstream in a small
                                              river through a jungle-- they
          And a strangely dis-                capsize and lose most of their
          jointed viewing method              supplies.                    
          this is-- re-watching                                            
          the earlier episodes                                             
          I have trouble remember-                                         
          ing who is supposed                                              
          to know what by now.                                             
                                                                           
                                                                           
                                                                           
   But it's fundamentally just a                                           
   by-the-numbers kdrama romcom.                                           
                                                                           
 Everyone is           Endless really dorky    Some are blatantly       There are some
 actually connected    exaggerated fantasy     deceptive, so that       shaggy-dog
 to each other!        sequences making fun    they can play tricks     "cliffhangers"
 Isn't that amazing?   of hidden dreams and    on the audience,         sleazy enough to be
 It Must Be Fate.      desires.                making a move and        worthy of a
                                               immediately taking it    Republic serial.
                                               back.                       
                                                                           
       KOREAN_POETICS                    
                                                                           
   So, what's so good about it?                                            
                                                                           
                                                                           
   This one has no underlying                                              
   fantasy or science fiction                                              
   premises, it does however use the        At the outset, we're shown     
   high end art world as one of it's        the male main character as     
   main backgrounds, which you don't        a famous painter turned        
   see done very often, and it              museum/gallery director--      
   strikes me as more interesting           he's had a years long case     
   than yet another rebellious              of artist's block because      
   chaebol offspring subjected to           something about the works      
   medieval marriage customs.               of an obscure artist named     
                                            "Lee Sol" is haunting him.     
                                                                           
                                             This series does not shy away 
                                             from *showing* you the artwork
            The B-movie Hollywood            under discussion-- and most of
            style would frequently           it is not bad, to my eye-- in 
            just punt on showing the         particular the art of "Lee    
            art-- the actors comment         Sol" gave me a bad impression 
            in awe, staring at a             at first glance ("what are    
            canvas we can only see           those, paintings of christmas 
            from the rear.                   ornaments or something?") but 
                                             after looking at them for     
            It is, after all, not so         a while I began to feel there 
            easy to fake superbly            might be some depth in the    
            transcendent art-- and           murky colors of these         
            tastes differ, much of           ambiquous spheres...          
            the audience is quite                                          
            likely contemptuous of              I was mildly disappointed  
            high-brow "abstract"                that the artist is haunted 
            painting, and yet decent            by personal associations   
            photorealistic art that             rather than something      
            doesn't seem ridiculously           deeper, more metaphysical...
            trite is if anything                but what do you want from  
            harder to manage.                   a kdrama, right?           
                                                                           
                                                And stories about such things
                                                aren't very easy to bring off.
                                                                           
                                                   TO_HERE_AND_THE_EASEL
                                                                           
                                                                           
                                                                           
The other axis it revolves around, though, is the                          
world of music "idols" and their obsessive fans,                           
which is not exactly fresh and original...                                 
                                                                           
And yet here, the *main character* is one of these                         
fans, they're not *just* a strange hazardous force                         
that creates plot complications.  This is about an                         
adult woman who's a central figure in a strange,                           
reviled sub-culture-- the second episode is titled:                        
"I'm Sorry for Pretending that I'm Normal"                                 
                                                                           
Further, one of the best things about this one is her                      
relationship with her best friend, another long-time                       
"fangirl"-- the two of them *like* to hang around with                     
each other, happilly gushing about fangirl trivia or                       
relationship troubles and triumphs.  There are no                          
clouds on this horizon whatsoever: they're not                             
worried about each other stealing a boyfriend, or                          
patiently explaining that they have to get on with                         
their Real Life and can't waste so much time on a mere                     
friend, or anything like that.                                             
                                                                           
                                                                           
   The usual doctrine is that stories are about                            
   conflict, and that results in endless tales of                          
   contrived troubles: it begins to feel like an                           
   inane cliche, a conviction that no positive                             
   outcome is possible anywhere.                                           
                                                                           
   When that's all just dropped it can actually                            
   seem refreshingly original...                                           
                                                                           
                                                                           
There are other things you can point to: the                               
female lead is clearly a Competent Woman,           In an interview, the lead
she's really good at her job-- curating a           actress, Park Min-young,
museum/gallery-- and also at her role as a          commented she felt like
"fangirl" where she's not just good, she's the      she was playing more than
best in her field, the acknowledged first fan       one character-- it is true
of the singer Shi An.  It's strongly suggested      she has to cover a number
that he might never have become successful if       of bases here: gushing fan
she hadn't adopted him and volunteered to           girl, professional woman,
promote him online.                                 squabbling sibling, adult
                                                    lover...  In her previous
     (But our heroine, despite her general          hit, she did a good job,
     competence, has a knack for falling down       but mostly in just a   
     a lot, particularly when the male lead         single mode that got a 
     is standing near by.)                          little monotonous:     
                                                                           
                                                      SECRETARY_KIM
  On two occasions they stay up                                               
  all night together playing       There's a line of dialog something like    
  cards-- that has to be an        "This is Korea, if a woman kisses a man     
  intentional joke.                and doesn't get married to him, we throw
                                   her in jail."                               
                                                                               
And a feature not to be sneered at is the music:                               
it doesn't suck and they don't over use it (too                                
much).  There's only around a dozen pieces of                                  
music they've got to work with, and they don't                             
generally just hammer away at one of them.                                 
                                                                           
  Even the bouncey bubblgum-pop numbers or                                 
  more or less okay-- there's one that I think                             
  of as the "trolling feminists song" that                                 
  strikes me as hilarious ("I want to be...                                
  Your *precious* *little* *girl*!").                                      
                                                  
                                                  
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