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BARBIE_VS_SEX


                                                August 16, 2023
   
The movie Barbie seems to               
largely goes with the                  
anti-sex version of feminism.        

                                         
Barbie transported to The Real World gets
ogled a lot, and complains about it             There's no actual
making her feel self-conscious. She also        physical attacks on
immediately senses "an undercurrent of          display in the movie.
violence" to this.                              Barbie just knows.
                                              
                                                Take a moment to try
                   BARBIE-ISM                   to rephrase this as
                                                instructions to the
                                                young on how they're
                                                supposed to behave.

                                                   There's a woman
                                                   who's literally
    In this area-- as in many others--             dolled up skating
    the rules for allowed behavior are             down Venice beach.
    a mess of conflicting                 
    poorly-defined principles.                     You're not supposed
                                                   to look at her?
    This doesn't often bother me much    
    these days-- I've long since                   Or, you're supposed to
    gotten used to it-- but I remember             look in some way that
    what it was like to feel tangled               doesn't make her feel
    up by this.                                    self-conscious?
                                           
    What does bother me occasionally,                 No one should ever,
    to this day, is the assumption by                 under any circumstances
    people who've internalized "the                   compliment someone on
    rules" that there's no reason any                 their appearence?
    right thinking person would ever         
    feel confused by them.  And if you                (Or, you need to have
    have any problem with this there's                your remarks screened
    something severely wrong with you.                for cheesy attempts at
                                                      double entendre?)
        A closeted rapist and        
        defender of the patriarchy.  
                                   
                                   
                                   
                                                                  
                                     Just for funsies, try               
                                     sketching out a few role            
                                     play situations and consider        
                                     who-is-allowed-to-say-what.         
                                                                         
                                                                         
                                                                        









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